Monday, May 28, 2012

Memorial Day...One year ago today

     One year ago today we saw her picture. Today she is our daughter! We didn't know that we needed her, but God did!
She found Jaydn's goggles

She loves rocking in her chair, looking at books.

She is in love with Natalie & Jaydn

She was playing peek-a-boo from behind the chair

Chalk time

She loves her ice pops!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Just had to share

     Maggie started going to preschool about 5 weeks ago. At first I tried her in my 2yo classroom, which only made me have an hour breakdown (literally - man! those tears wouldn't stop). SO, with encouragement from my teacher friends, I put her in another 2yo room. Every week the "hand-off" gets better. She still SCREAMS (as soon as we turn the corner to her room) but now she lunges for her teacher while screaming, AND the screaming only lasts for a minute. She is then off to play.
     The room she is in is attached to mine, so we have a blanket covering the window between the two so she can't see me. I have loved peeking through to watch her play. She is CRUISING around that room now! And she is happy! One mom stopped me in the hall the other day and said, "Look at her! She has LIFE in her eyes! Look at the LIFE!"
     One more thing about today...she played kick-ball at school. Kick-ball! They said she gets her stance, with one foot in front of the other, and just grins. And then she does the bases!
   
     I still have so many "oh my word, we have a 2yo again" moments! I am just amazed at what God has done in our lives this last year. On Memorial Day weekend last year, we saw a picture of her for the first time. One year later she has already been a Barcalow for 10 weeks/home for 9! C-R-A-Z-Y!

     Don't ever doubt what God can do in your life. God's spirit is so unbelievably powerful, and at times unpredictable. After 2 1/2 months of coaxing from His spirit, we said yes to adoption. Hopefully we are an example of how much God can change a mindset and a heart. Maybe we will do this again sometime.... : )

Thanks for being interested in our family!
This was our first pic of her

At week 9 of being a Barcalow. Don't know if you can see
the dirt so much, but she had just made her first MESS with the dirt.
Love it! We let her play and play. She also had her "cape" on.
Her big sis had hers on, so she needed one too (It's an apron).




Friday, May 11, 2012

8 weeks home

     We went to see Maggie's Neuro doctor today. He was happy that she is walking and talking. He said the report on her eyes (that there is no swelling or pressure on her optic nerve; and that her eyesight is fine) is HUGE. So, we thank our God for that!
     Just this past week, Maggie decided it was time to let go of our fingers and go it on her own! She is wandering all over now. It is such a joy to watch her wander and get into everything! And her babbling - so sweet! She will mimick everything now. Not all the words are clear, but she is trying.
     I mentioned that Maggie was approved for Babynet last week, which gives her in-home therapy. We should start that within the next 2 weeks. A plus to the program is that if she still needs help at 3yo, she will transition into the program at Sugar Creek Elementary, which is where Natalie and Jaydn go! AND, I was just told that there is transportation with that also!
     Natalie and Jaydn continue to do well with our family transition. Natalie has a hard time coming home after school to find that Maggie is still napping. I have to close Maggie's door all the way so that Natalie won't peek in and wake her up before it's time. HaHa
     I do think the "newness" of a cute little sister is starting to wear off though, as they have both made comments that she is bothering them. I just smile and listen.
   
     I realize that some of the pictures below, some of you have seen on FaceBook, but they are for those of you who are not on there. : )
Maggie, wearing Natalie's glasses, begging for Jaydn's yogurt




Maggie at school


Monday, May 7, 2012

I don't have a title...

     This Wednesday Maggie will have been home for 8 weeks. Crazy! She is such a sweet little gal. Natalie continues to tell us that she was a great addition to our family!
     Last week Maggie was approved for BabyNet in SC. As a result, she will be able to get varying therapies for free. B-L-E-S-S-I-N-G. We are just waiting to hear from one of the two organizations we picked, to tell us when she starts. Someone will come to our home weekly and work with her. We are thinking she will need speech, and maybe help building the confidence to walk on her own.
     She is mimicking everything now. Words, dancing, singing... She LOVES music!
     This week my goal is to write out our journey for Show Hope, which gave us a huge grant to bring Maggie home. I finally feel like I have the time to sit down and write it out. Hopefully it doesn't end up as a book. HaHa
Wearing Natalie's glasses. She loves glasses of any kind.

Learning to come down the stairs.